True Love
This means the fulfillment of one's (everyone's) ETERNAL need for a partner. Consistent Devotion. The one you appreciate and serve the most. The one you find that there's never enough time with. It involves:
Loyalty
Total Sacrifice
Devotion (service to each other and the rest)
Admiration (affirmative)
Interaction (physical and spiritual)
BlissÂ
Accomplishment and Faith (accomplishment leads to faith)
Exclusivity (the other is the very answer of love, correct and unparalleled)
it's a matter of claiming one another and being satisfied. It transcends pleasure. How? It becomes a fact, and a future!
Complete Service!
Monogamy is an intimacy and reliance (RESPONSIBILITY) that saves us from ambivalence and loneliness. It is best between man and woman because they have different mental and behavioral rhythms that compliment each other and foster good families. It has mission, desire, cooperation, fulfillment. It is why we have pleasure, and it isn't arbitrary.
How do you know when you're in true love? When that other person is all there is; co-mission is everything!
Being earnest for that other person every day is what matters. Earnestness is doing your best to develop virtue throughout your life, a culmination of virtues.
Some key principles of earnestness that show after a collection:
Integrity-Acting consistently with one's values and principles.
Empathy-Understanding and sharing the feelings of others.
Respect-Valuing others and treating them with dignity.
Responsibility-Taking accountability for one's actions and their impact.
Compassion-Showing kindness and a willingness to help others.
Justice-Seeking fairness and equality in treatment and opportunities.
You are a Quality of God's Love, meant to merit the love of others, a never-ending tour of the splendor of life.
Unconditional Love:
This is an oxymoron. There is nothing unconditional, as anything that is true or exists has a connection to the rest. There is no true support for something that can have any moral or immoral stance, unless you're worshipping the devil, but wait even then...I'll let someone else solve that.
We shouldn't be afraid of conditions or responsibilities. Love is embracing these, and feeling the rewards. This is Genuine Love. Unconditional love is just code talk for 0 and 1. Dorks.
Abandoning people would give love no meaning. Union is the goal of marriage, true lovers help one find and keep it. It is the purest source of grace, that comes not from perfection, but humility.