Here are some icebreakers:
Family (Immediate, Extended)
Common Friends and Neighborhoods
Art (Realistic, Abstract, Antique, Modern, East, West)
Music (Rap, Pop, Rock, Classical, Jazz, Regional)
Literature
Desserts or Candies
Games (Verbal, Board, Sports, Video)
Comics
Vacation Spots (Local, Domestic, Foreign)
Formal Knowledge (Arts, Sciences, College, News)
Recipes (Snacks, Entrees, Sides, Soups, Desserts)
Exercise (Swimming, Bikes, Hiking, Camping, Jogging, Lifting)
Parks
Pets (Dogs, Cats, Lizards, Snakes, Rats, Spiders, what else do girls like?)
7 DATES TO TRUE LOVE:
1st Date Objectives
Talk about family, friends, education, career goals, family goals, beliefs, ethics, personality, desired lifestyle, questions of life or society
Settings: Lunch, Park, Breakfast or Coffee, Church Social
2nd Date
Cooperative Compatibility is the Quality sought
Cook dinner together, play a board game, video game, or sport, go cycling together, go to a gym alor swim, write poetry/songs
Other qualities- wit, memory, multi-tasking
3rd Date
Volunteer- see commitment in each other
Share stories of grief, joy, accomplishment
Plan an adventure
4th Date
Not with each other!
With person's best friend- see their 'other' side through them
5th Date
Go Dutch!
Let Best Friends chime in with their opinion, maybe spark a match betwixt
6th Date
Meet Parents
7th Date
Crusade- Adventure with a Moral Accomplishment
Start after Mass
Go on a charitable journey; not a pleasure cruise
Test stress compatibility and honesty; "Earnest"
Keep in contact with a mediator
Can be 3 days to a month, however long it takes to be sure!